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Dating With Me is a voice podcast about dating, boundaries, and self-respect.

Each episode is a reflection — not advice.
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Just lived moments around effort, availability, and choosing yourself.

This podcast is for women who are tired of overexplaining, overgiving, and overthinking connection — and are ready to date with more honesty.

These episodes are inspired by my book, Dating With Me, where these moments are explored more deeply.

No fixing.
No chasing.
Just clarity.

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